why we think so much before doing any thing why we always bother about every thing that we should do this or not, what he or he will  think what they will from childhood our parents always says if  do this don't do this what others will say what other will think study well bring good marks and may more such types of thing but so our mentality becomes like that only we think so much before doing or saying any thing but why we think so much before every we should think once before doing any think we should ask our heart that what ever i am going to do is right or not n if answer is yes we should never think about any one  i aw lays do what ever i like and for that i have listen very much from my parents & my brothers but i do what i like in what i am happy they always says dont do thist dont do that girls doesnt behaive like this bla bla bla ... some time am afried of al this thing but againg a voice come inside me come on we get life once so just enjoy it live your life do what ever you want dont think about the stupid people or society they walways critesis they never see them self  and become happy i just dont wan hurt any one i just wan to be my self ...........